Carry out a random act of kindness, with no expectation of reward, safe in the knowledge that one day someone might do the same for you. ~ Princess Diana.
Life is its own reward. When you have true faith you don’t need or expect anything in return. Faith can be in a religion, in ourselves, in our partner or any other human being. When there is no expectation in a relationship there is no disappointment.
When we want to receive we forget to give. Often it is our own prospect of some reward or benefit that can damage or lose a connection. Once we become frustrated by not receiving our own hopes, we blame others.
Finding fault with others determines our own righteousness. This leads to a lack of trust, not because someone has done something wrong, but more likely because they have not fulfilled our own internal recognition and reward system.
However, even with the most disconnected couple there is always hope. When you give up hoping you give away your strength for a better future. Strangely though, a reward arrangement can work to embed desires into reality.
You often have to risk something to get the reward or the result you want. Being willing to give away what you want most is the best recipe to create it. The ingredients of anything have to be used in the right order and quantities for the perfect outcome.
The Seven Jewels program delivers just this. A measured amount of contact, understanding and bonding to raise the value of a relationship in the eyes of the partners to it. The simplest way to appreciate the depth of learning is to do a weekend retreat.
The whole program can be completed in one period without interruption. We can even keep the accomplishment, fun and reward system flowing. Whilst it’s not cheap, nothing of value ever is. Understand more about the program here.
A degree of quality can grow in a meaningful way that was never discovered previously. There is nothing hard in seeing someone else’s point of view. Discovering you can be happy by being wrong is the easy part of the solution.
Your future can be more fulfilling than you ever dreamed possible xx.